I may not have control over what others may do; what I do have is a choice of how I challenge myself in dealing with any situation. I choose to move on and go forward, not be left in idle with negative feelings. Not react or in some cases over react; to use my life time more wisely and choose the positive choices.

Death; it comes to each one of us at some point. I cannot dwell on death; when there is so much living to do. When someone you have in your life passes; it is a blessing for them, and a sadness for those left behind it is true. I'd rather remember life with them than worry about what I will do now. Mourning is something I have had a hard time to allow in the past. Not anymore, because when mourning does not happen, it creeps back into your life unexpected and affects your living of life. May all live each day as if it matters. May the blessing of each day be something you learn to recognize.